My Status

I am usually locked and controlled by my wife.  We had taken a long break before starting again, and a recent personal break too.  Self-locking for now.


Self-locked for: 3 days since 13/03/23, 15:55.

I have been unlocked for a while now.  Currently I am doing incremental self-locking periods which are increasing in time.  At some point I’ll probably be handing the keys back to my wife once I’ve re-acclimated to being caged, especially since I’m trying out longer periods in the BadassWorkroom custom cage.

Conditions below are irrelevant at the moment, but being kept for reference.

My current Chaster lock:

Chaster App Screenshot: 16/3/23

Current conditions:

Current conditions are self-imposed at the moment.

I am not allowed an orgasm in the normal sense.  Ruined orgasms are now my only allowance.  A caged normal orgasm might be subject to testing at some point.

I might be allowed a ruined orgasm after 30 days from 22nd March 2022, but this may be extended to 60 days. UPDATE – This has now been superseded by being in a more permanent state of chastity with no defined release date other than my Keyholding wife saying it will end when “I give you the keys back (stifling a laugh), or when I die.”.

My only allowable releases are for hygiene & hair trimming, urgent medical reasons and at the whim of my Keyholding wife to play with as she sees fit.

SECOND UPDATE – I am now locked including her playtimes – any teasing/denial I get will be with me remaining locked.  Zero freedoms excepting the hygiene stuff.  Even that’s more limited now as I can keep pretty clean without unlocking, but we want to keep an eye on things.  It’ll probably change a little when I new cage finally arrives, but the long-term locks will still apply.

I am allowed to be unlocked for my work.  This is required for sustained comfort and use outside of work.  However, some working days are less intensive so I choose to remain locked for the entirety of the day instead. This typically happens for 3/7 working days (I work 7 days a week).  Given my working hours, I calculated that over the course of a typical week I can be locked for 20.5 hours per day on average.

UPDATE – my comfort situation has drastically improved with my cage and plucking the hairs, so generally I am now locked during working hours now too – with the exception of my wife using me as her plaything, I’m not released most days unless for hygiene issues.

Last updated: 16th March 2023

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